Question for receivers

[Joebraggio1]

For receivers who started with self wedgies and eventually did a wedgie meetup: did the meetup meet your expectation? Was is much better than expected? Was it disappointing? I'd love to hear about your first experience!
I ask because I've only ever done self wedgies, but I imagine getting one from someone else is WAY better.

Getting a wedgie from someone else is so much better it almost makes it disappointing to go back to self wedgies! They get better leverage, pull harder than you can, allow for more creative wedgies, and the fact that you’re not really in control is what makes the whole experience fundamentally different (and better) imo. I’ve only done 2 meetups, both with girls, so I’ve never been given a truly overpowering wedgie, but getting surprised with a wedgie you’re not expecting or really getting pinned down to where you can’t fight back is better than any self wedgie you could hope to get. Also giving someone else a wedgie, even if you prefer to receive, is so fun and seeing their organic reaction is priceless. Meetups and in person wedgies are just a very different beast to self/online wedgies and I think they’re what the whole fetish is really about.

Oh, that sounds like so much fun! You got to do 2 meetups with girls?! How awesome is that! For a straight guy like me, that's a perfect dream come true lol.
My only hesitation is taking that first step from something that I do alone to meeting up with someone you've never met and doing something you've never told anyone irl about. I feel like I would be constantly worried about someone I know irl finding out. Were you nervous about your first meetup beforehand? What made you decide to finally go through with it?

I definitely agree, I would never meet up with someone that I felt I had any chance of knowing or that could know anyone I know lol. I’m also a straight guy and it was absolutely a dream come true, the first one was about a year ago and I still can’t believe it happened tbh. I was super nervous for both of them and honestly I feel like thats something that never goes away. 

Basically, I met the first girl online and we just got along really well, and we found out our colleges played in the same football conference. She came to my town the weekend they played and we actually met at a tailgate and just went to the game together and hung out, no mention of wedgies or any of that stuff. We had agreed that we wouldn’t go through to that stage without knowing each other more personally and she wanted to make sure her friends she came with would know me and would vaguely know where she was. Thankfully, things went really well, we started making “wedgie bets” during the game, and she came back to my apartment and we had a great time drinking, playing video games, and wedgieing the hell out of each other lol. As far as deciding to go through with it, that was a no brainer for me with it being the dream scenario of hosting someone from out of town, and being easy to explain to people with a girl coming back to my apartment. Different scenarios might be harder for me to go through with just because it can be scary or nerve wracking to meet a stranger from the internet, but that wasn’t the case this time haha.